So, recently I had this brilliant idea to start a “witchery and wine” group. I know several women who are into witchcraft and divination, and I thought it would be a good idea to have a sort of informal discussion group where we could all kick back, have a few drinks, and talk about tarot, spellcraft, alternative spirituality, all that kind of stuff.
Our first meetup went well, although it was really more of a ‘getting to know you’ evening – we felt that we should all kind of figure out where everyone is at in terms of knowledge and practice.
So, it seems like most of the group falls under the “interested but not well versed” category. They all own a deck of tarot cards, but most of them are not secure in their ability to read them. They come from different spiritual and religious backgrounds – we have a girl from rural Tennessee whose childhood included Jesus camps where they had to lug crosses around, and another who went to a private Catholic school – but everyone seems really keen on spellwork.
As for active practitioners, it looks like so far it’s me and one other girl. She’s been practising for about 14 years in secret (she’s the one from Tennessee), and I’ve been at it for twenty as of this year.
So my question is this: how do we keep this group feeling like a chill space where we can all learn, as opposed to turning it into a lecture hall situation? I’m not opposed to teaching things, but I really want to avoid making anybody feel like some dumb newb. So I figured I would ask the forum, both to get advice from anyone who has been in a similar situation, and to get the perspective of people who are just starting out on what they would like from an informal group.
- Message Board: Join in our discussion