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Spells for separating a couple-
« on: November 02, 2018, 11:38:27 pm »
Hello to all.

One of the spells I am now interested in is one for separating a couple(not married)in which one of the partners is very absorbent, and is isolating the other partner from family and friends. I don´t want to cause harm to any of them. I do not want quarrels nor violence among them: only  weariness, boredom, indiference, and lack of passion.

Could you help, please? I want to learn.

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Re: Spells for separating a couple-
« Reply #1 on: November 03, 2018, 04:58:54 am »


Hello to all.

One of the spells I am now interested in is one for separating a couple(not married)in which one of the partners is very absorbent, and is isolating the other partner from family and friends. I don´t want to cause harm to any of them. I do not want quarrels nor violence among them: only  weariness, boredom, indiference, and lack of passion.

Could you help, please? I want to learn.

Thank you

Absorbant is a wonderful way to describe someone like that.

May I ask your motivation? If you're looking to help someone leave a sponge, some sort of "truth revealed" plus offering a lot of support if the sponge has been successful in isolating them or is emotionally abusive.

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Re: Spells for separating a couple-
« Reply #2 on: December 17, 2018, 11:31:10 pm »
Hello to all.

One of the spells I am now interested in is one for separating a couple(not married)in which one of the partners is very absorbent, and is isolating the other partner from family and friends. I don´t want to cause harm to any of them. I do not want quarrels nor violence among them: only  weariness, boredom, indiference, and lack of passion.

Could you help, please? I want to learn.

Thank you

Ethically, the first place to start is with asking permission of the one you perceive as being victimized.

If they don't agree to it, then you need to stay out of it.

The best way to support a person in an abusive relationship, is to continue to be their friend.

If you want to research resources on abuse (particularly mental/emotional, if I understand correctly), and have a list of phone numbers and related resources handy in case they ask for it, that would be good.

But for you to make the decision on your own, without asking your friend, is not ethical.

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Re: Spells for separating a couple-
« Reply #3 on: December 29, 2018, 07:58:19 pm »

But for you to make the decision on your own, without asking your friend, is not ethical.

Yes, this this. I believe magic can be a powerful force for good, but not if it tramples over another person's free will or attempts to circumvent the need for self awareness.

In addition, if your friend has a pattern of entering into emotionally abusive or unhealthy relationships, your magical intervention isn't going to be a permanent solution anyways. If you want to ask them for some help in getting better awareness of their patterns, something like a tarot reading (if you use the tarot) or expressing your concern for them in a really clear way that doesn't place blame would be more helpful.

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