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Epona369

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Need help banishing a very bad person from daughter's life
« on: April 02, 2019, 11:57:06 am »
I need help banishing a person from my daughter's life. This is with her consent and she will participate. The man is her ex-husband and he is hurting not only my daughter but my three granddaughters as well. This man is her ex-husband because of all the pain he has already caused.
He only care about himself, which is an understatement. He is $40,000 behind in child support because he refuses to hold a job long enough for the state to collect money. He neglects the girls and they are distraught. They cannot handle his presence, he causes nightmares, trouble in school and emotional pain.
My daughter is doing all she can on the non-magic side of this issue.The girls and my daughter are seeing therapists. My daughter is constant contact with the state regarding the child support issue and the kids emotional stress. She speaks with the girls teachers.
She does not want him in their lives anymore. What I am stating here is only a small portion of what he has done to my daughter and grandkids.
My daughter wants him out of their lives to prevent further hurt to her kids. I want him out so he will no longer hurt all of them.
She wants my help with a banishing spell. She wants him gone but not physically hurt in anyway.
She has an old t-shirt of his that says Death on the front. My thoughts are for her to focus on Death from their lives. Using the shirt in some way that would bring him a death from their lives, not death to him specifically.
I'm looking for suggestions in how to remove this bad person from their lives.
I know we are in a dark moon and I'm hoping this energy can help.
I can create a chant for my daughter and I to use.

Any other thoughts? Banishing herbs or oil, using a candle, ideas for the chant?

Thank you for any help someone can offer.

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Re: Need help banishing a very bad person from daughter's life
« Reply #1 on: April 02, 2019, 02:02:10 pm »
I need help banishing a person from my daughter's life.

I'm not going to be any help with the banishing, unfortunately, as I've no experience yet myself of any magic to help with this, but I just wanted to express my sympathy that you, your daughter and grandchildren are going through this.  Hopefully some much more experienced members will respond soon with the suggestions you're in need of.

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Re: Need help banishing a very bad person from daughter's life
« Reply #2 on: April 02, 2019, 05:17:44 pm »
Any other thoughts? Banishing herbs or oil, using a candle, ideas for the chant?

This post may be of some help.

I admit I'm curious if she still intends to try to collect the child support from him after banishing him, or if she's written that off as a loss and just wants him gone. That would be an important factor to consider in a spell.
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Re: Need help banishing a very bad person from daughter's life
« Reply #3 on: July 01, 2019, 01:44:40 pm »
This post may be of some help.

I admit I'm curious if she still intends to try to collect the child support from him after banishing him, or if she's written that off as a loss and just wants him gone. That would be an important factor to consider in a spell.

Apologies for the thread necromancy, but Im curious about the first spell mentioned in the link above (quoted).  If you truly want to put someone out of your life, etc, why would you leave the box in the fridge?  Wouldn't it be better to bury it or burn it?

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Re: Need help banishing a very bad person from daughter's life
« Reply #4 on: July 01, 2019, 03:04:15 pm »
Apologies for the thread necromancy, but Im curious about the first spell mentioned in the link above (quoted).  If you truly want to put someone out of your life, etc, why would you leave the box in the fridge?  Wouldn't it be better to bury it or burn it?

I'm rather inclined to agree with you. I see freezer spells ( I assume they mean freezer rather than fridge as they mention a freezable container) as long term but temporary. At sometime in the future it will defrost!

I prefer to confine them in a small container and  consign to landfill.

 

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