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Author Topic: Love  (Read 1105 times)

gabbyschiavone20

Love
« on: June 15, 2017, 08:26:06 pm »
Anyone know a way to break free will and make someone love you?
Issue is the person is straight and would not date a member of the same sex. Thanks! Please help!

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Re: Love
« Reply #1 on: June 15, 2017, 08:55:06 pm »
Anyone know a way to break free will and make someone love you?

If we did why on earth would we tell you?

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Issue is that you want to commit rape.
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Re: Love
« Reply #2 on: June 15, 2017, 10:01:02 pm »
Anyone know a way to break free will and make someone love you?
Issue is the person is straight and would not date a member of the same sex. Thanks! Please help!

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Re: Love
« Reply #3 on: June 15, 2017, 11:29:29 pm »
Anyone know a way to break free will and make someone love you?
Issue is the person is straight and would not date a member of the same sex. Thanks! Please help!

To expand a bit on Darkhawk's response, you might want to take a look at this thread from a few years ago.

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Re: Love
« Reply #4 on: June 15, 2017, 11:47:22 pm »
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Issue is the person is straight and would not date a member of the same sex. Thanks! Please help!

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Re: Love
« Reply #5 on: June 16, 2017, 06:20:17 am »
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One who posts a deliberately provocative message to a newsgroup or message board with the intention of causing maximum disruption and argument

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Re: Love
« Reply #6 on: June 16, 2017, 01:09:27 pm »
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Eh, I can't imagine one of these threads turning out to be "maximum disruption", there are topics that can actually get a lot of serious argumentation going.  Generally speaking, from what I've seen over the years, "I wanna assault someone magically" gets a lot of "... why do you think I would want to help you do that, sweetie?"

I mean, even the contentious bits of the thread that Sunf linked were in the thread drift.
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Re: Love
« Reply #7 on: June 16, 2017, 08:22:46 pm »
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Re: Love
« Reply #8 on: June 17, 2017, 03:56:57 am »
Eh, I can't imagine one of these threads turning out to be "maximum disruption", there are topics that can actually get a lot of serious argumentation going.  Generally speaking, from what I've seen over the years, "I wanna assault someone magically" gets a lot of "... why do you think I would want to help you do that, sweetie?"

I mean, even the contentious bits of the thread that Sunf linked were in the thread drift.

Oh I know. I wasn't saying that he'd cause maximum disruption, just that it's his intention. I love how this board latches on to these kind of questions with serious answers and logic and just beats them out of the water.
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Re: Love
« Reply #9 on: June 17, 2017, 07:17:04 am »
Anyone know a way to break free will and make someone love you?
Issue is the person is straight and would not date a member of the same sex. Thanks! Please help!
While there is a chance you are only trolling, I will reply as if you aren't.

It is mental gymnastics to use both love and breaking free will in one sentence and pretend those things can truly go hand in hand.

Can you put a spell on a person and break their free will? Yes.
Would that truly be love? Heck no, not even in the slightest. Not from their side, and most definitely not from your side.
If your goal was indeed love, you would accept the fact that this person will never be able to love you in the way you desire them to and move on.

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Re: Love
« Reply #10 on: June 17, 2017, 01:40:56 pm »
Oh I know. I wasn't saying that he'd cause maximum disruption, just that it's his intention. I love how this board latches on to these kind of questions with serious answers and logic and just beats them out of the water.

See, I dunno if they ARE trolling because I've gotten this question IRL more than once.
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Re: Love
« Reply #11 on: June 17, 2017, 01:44:34 pm »
See, I dunno if they ARE trolling because I've gotten this question IRL more than once.
I'm not trolling at all.... I'm really looking for help to the question.

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Re: Love
« Reply #12 on: June 17, 2017, 01:53:01 pm »
I'm not trolling at all.... I'm really looking for help to the question.

Then I suggest you read the old thread that Sunflower linked.

That said, I will also say that I have been practising magic for 20 years and I've never once seen a spell like what you want actually work. It always ends in heartache. You're much better focusing on yourself and trying to move on.
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Re: Love
« Reply #13 on: June 17, 2017, 03:02:37 pm »
I'm not trolling at all.... I'm really looking for help to the question.

I have a question for you:
What is your reply when it comes to the concerns of multiple people here that taking away your target's own choice is a line you shouldn't (want to) cross?

gabbyschiavone20

Re: Love
« Reply #14 on: June 17, 2017, 03:07:14 pm »
I have a question for you:
What is your reply when it comes to the concerns of multiple people here that taking away your target's own choice is a line you shouldn't (want to) cross?
I honestly know it's not right and I shouldn't, but she's treated really crappy now. I want to know she's safe and treated right like she should be. I want to take care of her and love her and hold her in my arms every night. If obsession and a stalker is the outcome then that's ok as long as we're together and we're ok. I want real love to but I also only want her and real love, but that's not gonna happen so the illusion of love where magic makes her happy with us being together is the end result. It's gonna be a bit forced, but we'll both be happy and in "love". I know a lot of people get annoyed at this, but please don't, I'm not doing it for evil

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