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Mourning
« on: March 01, 2013, 06:09:22 pm »
I have a family member who is likely to die very soon, much sooner than I had expected, and I am realizing: I have no idea what the correct protocol is for mourning someone recently deceased, as opposed to honoring your other akhu.  Help?

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Mourning
« Reply #1 on: March 01, 2013, 06:18:16 pm »
Quote from: Snowdrop;99104
I have a family member who is likely to die very soon, much sooner than I had expected, and I am realizing: I have no idea what the correct protocol is for mourning someone recently deceased, as opposed to honoring your other akhu.  Help?

No idea myself, just wanted to say I'm so sorry to hear about your family member xx

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Re: Mourning
« Reply #2 on: March 01, 2013, 06:22:26 pm »
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No idea myself, just wanted to say I'm so sorry to hear about your family member xx

 
To be honest?  She's someone I love deeply, and I also feel extremely unemotional about this.  Really I just want to make sure that I'm doing everything I can to help her make her way safely.

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Re: Mourning
« Reply #3 on: March 01, 2013, 06:38:29 pm »
Quote from: Snowdrop;99104
I have a family member who is likely to die very soon, much sooner than I had expected, and I am realizing: I have no idea what the correct protocol is for mourning someone recently deceased, as opposed to honoring your other akhu.  Help?

 
THis may help:
http://peacefulawakenings.wordpress.com/2012/12/14/lifting-the-boat/
as the water grinds the stone
we rise and fall
as our ashes turn to dust
we shine like stars    - Covenant, "Bullet"

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Re: Mourning
« Reply #4 on: September 04, 2013, 03:51:55 pm »
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THis may help:
http://peacefulawakenings.wordpress.com/2012/12/14/lifting-the-boat/

 
The post is old, and my reply is unrelated to the original post, but I wanted to let you know that I found that incredibly healing and helpful. Simply beautiful and very meaningful to me. So thank you.

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