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Here I go again
« on: October 20, 2017, 04:02:39 pm »
A few of you are familiar with the situation I was in with my ex. I left him last May due to Domestic Violence. At the time, my son was around three months old.

We established supervised visitation. My ex hasn't been showing up and has started behaving erratically. This week I found out that our dog (who I lost in the divorce) is dead, and no reason has been given. I was beside myself with guilt because I couldn't save her. She was such a good girl.

Because he's been behaving so strangely and there's potential animal abuse I'm going back to court soon. And I'm just...tired. I'm so tired of dealing with his crap. I've been going to court pretty consistently for the past year and a half. For a protective order, for a custody hearing, for the divorce, for a bankruptcy (he refused to sell the house.) I have so much more support now, and I'm grateful for that, don't get me wrong. I would like to request prayers for a favorable outcome. For the best outcome for my son.
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Re: Here I go again
« Reply #1 on: October 20, 2017, 04:09:22 pm »
I have been here, I'm dealing with a divorce as well (mine had abuse but things are ending well and getting better in my situation). I will definitely ask for you to be helped. My previous ex (not divorce one), also killed my dog, so I know that sting all too well. Blessings to you, please hang in there.

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Re: Here I go again
« Reply #2 on: October 20, 2017, 08:29:22 pm »
I would like to request prayers for a favorable outcome. For the best outcome for my son.

You got 'em. (In particular, I'll be talking to Brigid and the Morrigan, who are - my UPG, but other folks have reported similar observations - definitely not fond of domestic abusers, and supportive to survivors.)

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Re: Here I go again
« Reply #3 on: October 20, 2017, 08:31:42 pm »

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Re: Here I go again
« Reply #4 on: October 20, 2017, 08:36:17 pm »
You got 'em. (In particular, I'll be talking to Brigid and the Morrigan, who are - my UPG, but other folks have reported similar observations - definitely not fond of domestic abusers, and supportive to survivors.)

(((((MeadowRae & son)))))

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Re: Here I go again
« Reply #5 on: October 21, 2017, 12:10:44 am »
A few of you are familiar with the situation I was in with my ex. I left him last May due to Domestic Violence. At the time, my son was around three months old.

We established supervised visitation. My ex hasn't been showing up and has started behaving erratically. This week I found out that our dog (who I lost in the divorce) is dead, and no reason has been given. I was beside myself with guilt because I couldn't save her. She was such a good girl.

Because he's been behaving so strangely and there's potential animal abuse I'm going back to court soon. And I'm just...tired. I'm so tired of dealing with his crap. I've been going to court pretty consistently for the past year and a half. For a protective order, for a custody hearing, for the divorce, for a bankruptcy (he refused to sell the house.) I have so much more support now, and I'm grateful for that, don't get me wrong. I would like to request prayers for a favorable outcome. For the best outcome for my son.

I'll keep you in my thoughts as well, Meadow. You need all the help you can get!
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Re: Here I go again
« Reply #6 on: October 21, 2017, 10:55:34 am »
I'll ask Artemis later to protect you and your son from harm.

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Re: Here I go again
« Reply #7 on: October 21, 2017, 12:24:12 pm »
You got 'em. (In particular, I'll be talking to Brigid and the Morrigan, who are - my UPG, but other folks have reported similar observations - definitely not fond of domestic abusers, and supportive to survivors.)

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It's funny, I didn't know much about Brighid but I found her and the Morrigan when I was going through the worst of my abuse. Brighid has stayed with me ever since.

Thank you all for your prayers. I imagine I will have an army walking into that court room. 
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Re: Here I go again
« Reply #8 on: October 30, 2017, 01:34:19 pm »
A few of you are familiar with the situation I was in with my ex. I left him last May due to Domestic Violence. At the time, my son was around three months old.

We established supervised visitation. My ex hasn't been showing up and has started behaving erratically. This week I found out that our dog (who I lost in the divorce) is dead, and no reason has been given. I was beside myself with guilt because I couldn't save her. She was such a good girl.

Because he's been behaving so strangely and there's potential animal abuse I'm going back to court soon. And I'm just...tired. I'm so tired of dealing with his crap. I've been going to court pretty consistently for the past year and a half. For a protective order, for a custody hearing, for the divorce, for a bankruptcy (he refused to sell the house.) I have so much more support now, and I'm grateful for that, don't get me wrong. I would like to request prayers for a favorable outcome. For the best outcome for my son.

Praying to my Goddess that she protect you and give you a favorable outcome. Blessings.

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