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Author Topic: Found on my hard drive: the "You Can't Be Pagan" list  (Read 8786 times)

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Re: Found on my hard drive: the "You Can't Be Pagan" list
« Reply #30 on: October 04, 2015, 01:08:06 am »
Quote from: Sefiru;133297
BTW, if anyone has any new ways they've been told "You can't be Pagan", I'd love to hear them.

 
Not a new one, just remembering an old anecdote:

- because I want to actually perform my religious rituals, even when travelling, rather than "just do them on the astral"
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Re: Found on my hard drive: the "You Can't Be Pagan" list
« Reply #31 on: October 09, 2015, 07:41:30 pm »
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Not a new one, just remembering an old anecdote:

- because I want to actually perform my religious rituals, even when travelling, rather than "just do them on the astral"


Since the material world isn't important, amirite? /sarcasm

I wonder if this sort of comment has become less common over time, or if it goes in cycles. Or if the type of person who likes to be exclusionary isn't likely to be into Paganism these days.

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Re: Found on my hard drive: the "You Can't Be Pagan" list
« Reply #32 on: November 18, 2015, 12:02:14 pm »
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So I was looking over the Teen Pagans FAQ and saw that it still had a mention of this compilation, even though it disappeared from the Web when Geocities went down. The timestamp on the file is August 2007 (has it really been that long?); it lists 248 points and is 7 pages in word. And here it is in all its absurd glory ...

 
I actually almost guffawed a couple times reading this... I'd heard of this years ago but couldn't be bothered at the time to go look at it. Probably for the best. I was a much angrier person back then and likely would have embarrassed myself.

And oh so many reasons I'm not pagan. Let me count the ways. Wait, nope. I have to get ready for work now...
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Re: Found on my hard drive: the "You Can't Be Pagan" list
« Reply #33 on: November 28, 2015, 12:49:00 pm »
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I love that a goodly number of the items are mutually contradictory.  Nice solid foundation, that is. :)

 

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Re: Found on my hard drive: the "You Can't Be Pagan" list
« Reply #34 on: December 01, 2015, 04:45:56 pm »
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You can’t be pagan because …you don’t like: … Silver Ravenwolf.


This made me smile because as someone who has recently turned back to paganism after the surge of popularity in the 90s when I was a teen, I stumbled across some Silver Ravenwolf teen pagan books in the used bookstore, and oh, those covers! It brought back a flood of memories, but also a cringe cuz Silver Ravenwolf, but still I can't deny her books were big to tween me!

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Re: Found on my hard drive: the "You Can't Be Pagan" list
« Reply #35 on: December 21, 2016, 06:22:15 am »
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BTW, if anyone has any new ways they've been told "You can't be Pagan", I'd love to hear them.

 
This is not new to me, by any means (I've been ranting about it for 25 years now), but Morag and I were commiserating about this one in chat, it being UAN; neither of us could recall if it was on the list, but we agreed it should be. So I dug up the thread to check, and, nope, it's not! It's kind of a string of corollaries:

Quote from: Sefiru;132755
Get Your Wicca On

You can’t be pagan because …

… you don’t celebrate the Sabbats.


... ... on the exact date.
... ... ... with a formal ritual.

Of course, those who aren't Wiccish (or possibly some flavors of Druish) are ruled out on the first one, but just to make sure everyone's excluded equally, the gatekeepers and purists have more stages!:mad:

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Re: Found on my hard drive: the "You Can't Be Pagan" list
« Reply #36 on: December 21, 2016, 06:30:27 am »
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Damn.  I'm not Pagan because half that list.  At least Jesus still loves me (this I know.)


I started to count the disqualifying points, out of curiosity. Ran out of it and gave up when I passed 100. Guess I never was saved Pagan to begin with. :p
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Re: Found on my hard drive: the "You Can't Be Pagan" list
« Reply #37 on: December 21, 2016, 06:29:35 pm »
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Of course, those who aren't Wiccish (or possibly some flavors of Druish) are ruled out on the first one, but just to make sure everyone's excluded equally, the gatekeepers and purists have more stages!:mad:

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Gaters gonna gate, I guess. *eyeroll*

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Re: Found on my hard drive: the "You Can't Be Pagan" list
« Reply #38 on: December 27, 2016, 11:02:19 am »
Quote from: Sefiru;132755
And here it is in all its absurd glory ... ;)

OMG I got such a hearty chuckle out of this, thank you for bringing it to the surface Sunflower!
Btw, is it just me or is there a healthy dose of BDSM-minded people on this site :whis:

btw... maybe saying OMG should be on the list too. I say that way too often and its so out of tune with my woolen socks.
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Re: Found on my hard drive: the "You Can't Be Pagan" list
« Reply #39 on: June 28, 2017, 05:19:26 pm »
Check Your Brain At The Door

You can’t be pagan because …
… you don’t trust all other pagans without question.

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Re: Found on my hard drive: the "You Can't Be Pagan" list
« Reply #40 on: June 28, 2017, 06:03:59 pm »
... ... about their status as a god.

*gigglesnort.*

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