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Author Topic: R.I.P. "Don't Ask, Don't Tell"  (Read 4048 times)


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Re: R.I.P. "Don't Ask, Don't Tell"
« Reply #30 on: September 24, 2011, 09:01:13 am »
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Bound to be - otherwise they wouldn't be so terribly frightened about The Gays entering. (If you know you have an open, robust culture where those things don't happen much and are addressed properly, there wouldn't be much need to be so panicked about it.)

Especially since the usual fear about The Gays is that - the gay men will treat the straight men the way the straight men treat or want to treat women .....


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Re: R.I.P. "Don't Ask, Don't Tell"
« Reply #31 on: September 24, 2011, 10:08:10 am »
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You really want to take those stories with a grain of salt.  Last major investigation ended up with lots of women getting DD's.

The other thing is, rape is a funny crime.  the victim often gets as much blame as the perpetrator, sometimes more. I doubt it's any different in the military.

"I have a bad feeling about this."  Every good guy in the Star Wars saga, and an occasional bad guy as well.


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