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Love spell or long-term delusion?
« on: June 16, 2014, 10:53:35 pm »
There's a guy I've known for 5 years, and I've always secretly really liked and admired him. In the past I was able to keep my feelings for him private and in check. Fast forward to now and I cannot get him off my mind, which is weird and it all started when we worked on a brief project together. We barely speak in person, just a lot of eye contact and body language. We worked together so I am comfortable around him. However lately whenever I see him I freeze up and become very nervous and shy. Sometimes I cannot even talk to him or look him in the eye. I have to run off because the feelings that arise in me are very overwhelming and often times interfere with my concentration.

He's been appearing in my dreams lately, too. Usually there's a scene of him and I smiling and holding hands. Immediately after having these dreams I usually run into him maybe 2 to 3 times a day. He tries to initiate a convo in person but I am too shy. As a result he becomes really quiet but likes to stare when he thinks I'm not looking. Somedays gets VERY quiet and has a very intense look in his eyes.

I don't speak to him much in person like I use to because of my nervousness but I contact him via Facebook. We chat occasionally through there but I am usually the one to get the convo going. The last message I received from him was "good luck!" The following day my friend told me "good luck". Then I went shopping for a pendant and couldn't find it and the clerk said "good luck!". I get into my car and see a lady bug crawling up my windshield. I drive to a park and spot a guy fishing and I ask him if he caught fish and he tells me that he caught two Chinese coy fish which symbolize good luck.

Also when I try to avoid him at all cost, he finds a way to reel me back in by greeting me with a certain look in his eyes. He gets really quiet and just stares when he thinks I am not looking. Shortly after, he will consume my thoughts for DAYS. Sometimes from the time I wake up to the time I go to sleep.

I don't know what's going on......can someone help me? Please ....

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Re: Love spell or long-term delusion?
« Reply #1 on: June 26, 2014, 08:22:43 pm »
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It sounds like an infatuation and like you're having a confirmation bias (you started paying attention to the term 'good luck' and thus it seemed like everyone was saying it more than normal). It sounds like you know him fairly well, so if he isn't into the occult, it seems odd to assume that it's a spell, and I think you could rule it out.

You could try using a spell or charm to protect yourself from love spells and it might help, but I think it would be best to start by journaling and figuring out what your thought patterns are, as well as finding something else you can focus on when he is in your mind. It could be just a crush that got worse, or it could be that he has been manipulating you emotionally in your conversations, or it could be a spell. I'm not there, I don't know, and that's why I think it's best that you consider and keep track of everything.

If it isn't a spell, doing something to block one shouldn't cost you anything more than energy, but failing to react to the mundane aspects could hurt you in the long run, so I suggest you start with the introspection.

I just noticed I'm 10 days after you posted this, but if you're around, here's this.
« Last Edit: June 26, 2014, 08:23:52 pm by Scales »

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