Is it possible?

[Ncalt10]

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I have been married just over 9 months now. Recently, maybe the past 4 months or so, I have noticed something odd occurring. My husband and I cam go away for the weekend and have a fantastic time with each other. However, within a few moments of entering our house, we begin arguing. Shortly after leaving our house again, we stop.

A little history about our house...we are purchasing our house from my brother and sister in law. She is actually who introduced me to Paganism and would cleanse the house every few months. Is it possible that there is negative energy built up and stale? Or am I thinking too much into this?:confused:

[Etheric1]

I hope I am posting this in the right section. If not, I sincerely apologize!

I have been married just over 9 months now. Recently, maybe the past 4 months or so, I have noticed something odd occurring. My husband and I cam go away for the weekend and have a fantastic time with each other. However, within a few moments of entering our house, we begin arguing. Shortly after leaving our house again, we stop.

A little history about our house...we are purchasing our house from my brother and sister in law. She is actually who introduced me to Paganism and would cleanse the house every few months. Is it possible that there is negative energy built up and stale? Or am I thinking too much into this?:confused:

 
No, I'd say that's certainly possible.  It certainly isn't the first time I've heard that almost exact story.  As for why something might be there, gods only know.  But I'd say a major cleansing isn't a bad idea.

[Stardancer]

I hope I am posting this in the right section. If not, I sincerely apologize!

I have been married just over 9 months now. Recently, maybe the past 4 months or so, I have noticed something odd occurring. My husband and I cam go away for the weekend and have a fantastic time with each other. However, within a few moments of entering our house, we begin arguing. Shortly after leaving our house again, we stop.

A little history about our house...we are purchasing our house from my brother and sister in law. She is actually who introduced me to Paganism and would cleanse the house every few months. Is it possible that there is negative energy built up and stale? Or am I thinking too much into this?:confused:

 
If there's a lot of mess and clutter, it can interfere with positive energy too - you could try starting with physical cleaning, decluttering, maybe reading up on Feng Shui. Typically hotel rooms and such are very sparse so there is little that can build up to block energy, if that's where you go away for a weekend.

[Micheál]

I hope I am posting this in the right section. If not, I sincerely apologize!

I have been married just over 9 months now. Recently, maybe the past 4 months or so, I have noticed something odd occurring. My husband and I cam go away for the weekend and have a fantastic time with each other. However, within a few moments of entering our house, we begin arguing. Shortly after leaving our house again, we stop.

A little history about our house...we are purchasing our house from my brother and sister in law. She is actually who introduced me to Paganism and would cleanse the house every few months. Is it possible that there is negative energy built up and stale? Or am I thinking too much into this?:confused:

It is possible. I'd try cleansing it yourself, and see how it goes.

The first year of marriage can be a little testing as well. Home is where the mundane thoughts are, and when you leave it's a bit of a break(not from each-other, but from things that stress you out that you usually think about at home), and going back to it is entering square one.

It could be a mixture of both as well.

[hufflee]

It is possible. I'd try cleansing it yourself, and see how it goes.

The first year of marriage can be a little testing as well. Home is where the mundane thoughts are, and when you leave it's a bit of a break(not from each-other, but from things that stress you out that you usually think about at home), and going back to it is entering square one.

It could be a mixture of both as well.

This was going to be my answer. When you are at home, you are less likely to be actively thinking about things or doing things that will keep your mind off of petty annoyances, and VERY likely to notice those things you may not absolutely adore about the other person. (his socks on the floor, her make up all over the counter, why can't he just put the cap back on the toothpaste, blah blah blah)

However, if there is some sort of negative energy present it can make all of those things seem bigger than they really are.

[Ncalt10]

It is possible. I'd try cleansing it yourself, and see how it goes.

The first year of marriage can be a little testing as well. Home is where the mundane thoughts are, and when you leave it's a bit of a break(not from each-other, but from things that stress you out that you usually think about at home), and going back to it is entering square one.

It could be a mixture of both as well.

 
I definitely agree that the first year can be testing. However, we have been together for 6 years. We are best friends before husband and wife and have always been that way. If you cleanse your home, what would you suggest to try? Some say straight sage, some say sea salt. I even read about sage mixed with cinnamon.

[hufflee]

I definitely agree that the first year can be testing. However, we have been together for 6 years. We are best friends before husband and wife and have always been that way. If you cleanse your home, what would you suggest to try? Some say straight sage, some say sea salt. I even read about sage mixed with cinnamon.

 Myself, I prefer sage when it comes to cleansing a house, or similar area. I use salt more for things (tools, a statue, etc.)  than areas. I also find I have better luck by replacing the energy I'm clearing out with positive energy, and leaving "reminders" of that good energy, i.e.  charged stones, a particular bag of herbs......whatever.

[Ncalt10]

, you are less likely to be actively thinking about things or doing things that will keep your mind off of petty annoyances, and VERY likely to notice those things you may not absolutely adore about the other person. (his socks on the floor, her make up all over the counter, why can't he just put the cap back on the toothpaste, blah blah blah)

 
Isn't that the truth?!?!?!?! Over the years that we have been together, I have learned to overlook those annoyances. I adapted the personal motto of "don't sweat the small things" a while back.

[Aubrey_Rose]

I hope I am posting this in the right section. If not, I sincerely apologize!

I have been married just over 9 months now. Recently, maybe the past 4 months or so, I have noticed something odd occurring. My husband and I cam go away for the weekend and have a fantastic time with each other. However, within a few moments of entering our house, we begin arguing. Shortly after leaving our house again, we stop.

A little history about our house...we are purchasing our house from my brother and sister in law. She is actually who introduced me to Paganism and would cleanse the house every few months. Is it possible that there is negative energy built up and stale? Or am I thinking too much into this?:confused:

 

We go through the same thing in our house. Whenever I feel things getting really tense I clense the whole house, bathrooms, bedrooms, the kitchen, etc. with my sage stick. Then I light energy infused candles for positive energy and love. I find that for us, it almost instantly calms down the house.

We also have a crystal wand that we use if we come home after a particularly bad day. We will take turns sliding it over the others back, it draws out our negative energies, and leaves me feeling unbelievable relaxed afterwards.