collapse

* "Unable to verify referring url. Please go back and try again" Problem Logging In?

If you get an "Unable to verify referring url. Please go back and try again" error when you try to log in, you need to be sure you are accessing the board with a url that starts with "https://ecauldron.com".  If it starts with https://www.ecauldron.com" (or "http://www.ecauldron.com") you will get this error because "www.ecauldron.com" is not technically the same website as "ecauldron.com". Moving to the more secure "https" means it is more picky about such things.

Author Topic: Is there a good way to say "no you don't have it"?  (Read 5692 times)

Medulla

  • Sr. Apprentice
  • ****
  • Join Date: Oct 2013
  • Posts: 92
  • Total likes: 0
    • View Profile
Re: Is there a good way to say "no you don't have it"?
« Reply #15 on: October 15, 2013, 05:29:46 am »
Quote from: Jack;122835


Anybody have a script for that?

 
There are two ways I usually go about saying it. One is if they're obviously saying that without thinking and don't literally mean they have whatever they're talking about. In that case I'll make some casual but clear remark about it. For example, if it's the disorder I do have, I'm very open about it so I'll ask them if they have it too or whatever. Depending on the person I might also point out upfront that doing that doesn't mean they have it and that it's hurtful to people.

If they just seem to be diagnosing themselves, I'll keep communication more open. Mostly because I was self-diagnosed before I could see a professional to get their opinion about it, it was very clear I had the disorder I have. For a lot of people, it might be difficult or downright impossible to see a doctor at this time, because of factors like money or their families. Even if they're straight up wrong, if something is causing them so much distress it's still helpful to encourage them to seek help and get diagnosed instead of just saying shutting down all communication and telling them they have nothing.

Tags:
 

Related Topics

  Subject / Started by Replies Last post
2 Replies
1998 Views
Last post July 07, 2011, 08:45:50 am
by RandallS
8 Replies
3454 Views
Last post July 11, 2011, 10:49:40 pm
by Arcadia
31 Replies
3744 Views
Last post September 24, 2011, 10:08:10 am
by mandrina
36 Replies
4974 Views
Last post January 15, 2013, 03:53:31 am
by FollowerofOdin
9 Replies
898 Views
Last post May 27, 2018, 11:18:59 pm
by Demophon

Special Interest Group

Warning: You are currently in a Special Interest Group on the message board with special rules and focused discussions.

* Who's Online

  • Dot Guests: 56
  • Dot Hidden: 0
  • Dot Users: 0

There aren't any users online.

* Please Donate!

The Cauldron's server is expensive and requires monthly payments. Please become a Bronze, Silver or Gold Donor if you can. Donations are needed every month. Without member support, we can't afford the server.

* Shop & Support TC

The links below are affiliate links. When you click on one of these links you will go to the listed shopping site with The Cauldron's affiliate code. Any purchases you make during your visit will earn TC a tiny percentage of your purchase price at no extra cost to you.

* In Memoriam

Chavi (2006)
Elspeth (2010)
Marilyn (2013)

* Cauldron Staff

Host:
Sunflower

Message Board Staff
Board Coordinator:
Darkhawk

Assistant Board Coordinator:
Aster Breo

Senior Staff:
Aisling, Jenett, Sefiru

Staff:
Allaya, Chatelaine, EclecticWheel, HarpingHawke, Kylara, PerditaPickle, rocquelaire

Discord Chat Staff
Chat Coordinator:
Morag

Cauldron Council:
Bob, Catja, Emma-Eldritch, Fausta, Jubes, Kelly, LyricFox, Phouka, Sperran, Star, Steve, Tana

Site Administrator:
Randall