In matters of romance, there is nothing like a good love Tarot reading. The Tarot offers a unique perspective, shedding light on the nature of our relationships. They are there to guide you on your journey, both personally and romantically. Questions of love are by far the most common inquiries made during a Tarot reading. However, many people find themselves disappointed or unsatisfied. The cause of this is often due to the questions that are asked. The most important aspect to a successful love Tarot reading is asking the right questions.
The most common error that is made during a tarot reading is the withholding of information. People tend to do this when they feel they need to question or test a Tarot reader’s ability. It’s quite normal to feel apprehensive when working with a new Tarot reader, particularly if it is your first time getting a reading. Under these circumstances, the biggest issue that arises is a lack of open-mindedness. Unfortunately this doesn’t serve you or the Tarot reader because withholding information will most probably impede the Tarot reader’s ability.
When you get a Tarot reading, the best approach is to remain open and have your questions about love prepared before you start the reading. A professional tarot reader understands the cards and has learned how to interpret their meanings. The more specific you get with the Tarot reader, the better the Tarot reader will be able to assist you in your reading. Take the time to clear yourself of any doubt and let the cards guide you. You will be surprised at how much information you can receive when you remain receptive.
The best questions to ask during your first love Tarot reading should not be black and white. In other words, asking of someone likes you or if your relationship is going to work out may give the Tarot reader very little to work with. The more open ended you are with your questions, the more information that Tarot reader will be able to receive.
Here are some examples of open ended questions that could be useful during a relationship Tarot reading.
- What is currently influencing my relationship?
- What is currently influencing my love interest?
- How might I make this relationship grow?
- What do I need to understand about myself?
- What do I need to understand about my love interest?
- What is the potential outcome of this relationship?
- What do I need to work on in order to bring a loving relationship into my life?
The list can go on and you can get creative as you want. Asking carefully planned questions can lead to a very fulfilling Tarot reading.
It’s also wise to let a Tarot reader know the background of your situation. This is particularly true for love Tarot readings. By allowing the Tarot reader to fully understand the nature of your situation, the more they will be able to guide you. The history of a situation often enhances the Tarot reader’s abilities. It gives them a wider perspective and allows them to comprehend the issues that you are facing. It also helps them to discover what has been influencing your relationship.
Finally, it’s important to remember that a good Tarot reader will never tell you what to do. They are, in essence, messengers. You are your own master and have your own free will. You have the power to choose your own directions and behaviors. In love matters, you are always your own best guide. While tarot readings can often disclose important influences, you always have the power to make your own decisions and choose your own course of action.
About the Author
Carolyn Naiman is a professional Tarot reader and the Webmaster of http://tarotreadingpsychic.com She has a Masters in Psychology and has been a Tarot advisor since 1998.